On death and dying (2)

Everybody IS going to die, sooner or later ... that's a fact! Some know beforehand, like Ruben Kruger of whom I wrote in a previous posting, for others, death come suddenly, like my late husband and 13-year old son, who died in an aeroplane crash. It is us who are left behind, that have "problems" with the issue of death and dying... funny, isn't it ;)))

I have often wondered, if I had a choice, would I like to know, like Ruben, or would I prefer to be taken suddenly?